We're all for instilling the wonderful joys of house cleaning in our children. But sometimes, life just gets out of control and the bedrooms of our tweens and teens can look more like the aftermath of a natural disaster than not. Our Mom used a quick and quite persuasive method to help us stay on track...
The hardest part about recovering a room that has layers of filth and clutter to it is knowing where to start. It's hard for adults and it's even worse for kids. Their minds wander from memory to memory as they attempt to see the floor again. Help them out with the trick our mom used to use for us!
Throw it all on the bed. Easy as that. She would make a pile of dirty clothes, clean clothes, obvious trash, books and then everything else. It was an easier place for us to dig in, because it had all been presorted for us and all we had to do was put one pile away at a time.
That isn't so say of course that we didn't rearrange our New Kids On The Block and Debbie Gibson posters a few times while we were working, but it was always something that we more than appreciated from our Mom.
Plus, it didn't hurt that we couldn't actually sleep until it was all put away (although we did spend a few nights on the floor with our pillow and a blanket in defiance!).
Do you have a tip to help your teens and tweens stay on top of things? Let us know in the comments below!
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i had a method of cleaning like this when i was a kid. (my mum didn't presort, it was all up to me). i actually found a book in my elementary school library when i was in second or third grade called "how to clean your room" or something.
basically they process is:
take everything off the bed.
make the bed.
put *everything* on the bed. even if it's already on something else (i.e. clear off the tops of desks, bookcases, chairs, etc.).
dust and sweep or vaccum.
then pick up one thing at a time from the bed and put it away where it belongs - DO NOT PUT IT BACK ON THE BED!
clothes can wait until last - just toss them to the head of the bed until they're the only thing left. sort clean/dirty items - put them in the hamper or closet where appropriate.
it seems like it would take a long time, but after getting used to the process it was amazingly easy and fast.
view molly h's profile
Each of my kids has a big rubber tub (tubtrugs or something like that) in their room. Quick cleaning means picking everything up off the floors, tables, beds and dumping it into the tub. Good cleaning means going through the tub and putting everything in it away where it belongs. We also have a tub that collects everything from downstairs to carry upstairs and vice versa.
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My mom typically used the dump everything on the bed method ( I still use it! ) but when that didn't work, or I would just simply get lazy and throw it all back on the floor, she would get a few huge trash bags and pack EVERYTHING up and put the garbage bags in the hall for a week or two, and I wouldn't be allowed to have ANYTHING out of them, including my favorite teddy bear! Let me tell you, she only had to do that once! :)
view a_funk09's profile
that's how I unpack when moving. The bed goes in the room, everything that goes in the bedroom gets unpacked onto the bed. It works great and usually I'm fully set up and unpacked by the time I go to bed (hopefully!)
view mcheerio's profile
I design kid's rooms for a living so my daughter's messy room was really driving me crazy! It doesn't help that the room is long and narrow with the walk-in closet door right in the middle of the best wall for her queen-size bed. Our solution? We put everything in the closet that she doesn't use everyday but isn't quite ready to get rid of and blocked the door with a folding screen we painted and put fabric panels in. All her clothes are now either in her dresser or in various bins and a couple of storage ottomans. So far so good! It gets a little messy now and then but since relinquishing control (this was key) and passing on the organization torch to her, she's really maintained it very well.
view babycoco's profile
hmm... i didn't realize, but i still clean like this.
view cal's profile
I loved the New Kids on the Block!!!!!
view JDzJane's profile
My sister still cleans like this, my oldest son dumps everything in a pile on the floor and my youngest son really doesn't make much mess. He kind of puts his stuff away when he's done with it.
view Tanya's profile
I'm doing this right now....I'm moving at the end of the month, so I'm packing AND severely decluttering.
The bed is usually the largest flat surface in your house, aside from the floors.
And I'm getting too old to be doing this on the floor, lol
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Would love this to work for me. My DH just dumps the clean (but not yet folded) laundry onto the floor so he can crawl into bed! Then the clean pile gets confused with the dirty pile.... hmmmm... guess I should go fold & put away instead of commenting on this site! Ha ha ha ...
view tallsarah's profile
my mom yelled and threatened a lot. the ace was to give a deadline after which she would come in and do it herself. my mom is not a tidier. she goes through every item and scrap of paper.
view Lady J's profile
My mum's solution when I was a teenager was simply to close our bedroom doors, so that she couldn't see the mess! I would eventually get frustrated and annoyed with the mess and tidy up on my own accord!
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