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Good Questions: How Do I Tell Them I'm Pregnant?

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"I'm pregnant" . Those are some life-changing words. If you're a woman, we're sure you put some thought into how you were going to tell your baby's father. Telling your co-workers- a whole other story. Ana Marie asks,

I'm really stumped about how to tell my co-workers that I'm having a baby.  I've already told the boss but don't feel it's necessary to tell others just yet, but I know they know. Any ideas?


 
 

Ana Marie- in our experience, if you just tell one or two people you're closer to- the word will get around. People can then decide if they want to approach you and congratulate you themselves.

Anyone else have any stories to share?

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One of my coworkers is recently pregnant and the way she went about revealing the news was by just openly talking about it with a close friend she has at the office. She told her close friend and a couple of weeks ago they started having conversations about baby names, strollers, etc. Not in a loud 'notice me' kind of way, just in normal speaking voices. Since we work in a cubicle farm, the information slowly made it's way around the office and when asked, she simply confirmed. I dont' think she did it on purpose, I think she was honestly just having conversations, but that's some food for thought if you work in an open area. Don't announce it, just don't hide it! :)

posted by bluestar on May 31st 2007 at 4:26am
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i've recently 'come out' at my office. i told my bosses a month or two ago and they knew i was keeping it on the down-low for a bit (wasn't ready for the attention and questions). there were obvious clues that i referred to...i made my new eating habits a common joke, doctor's appts, etc...then i finally blurted it out to a co-worker...and it just started to spread. one person overheard, asked me about it in front of others, etc. kinda fun since i'm in the "has she been putting on a lot of weight?" stage...

posted by bbt on May 31st 2007 at 9:02am
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Just tell the chattiest person in your office.... word will get around on it's own.

posted by val299 on May 31st 2007 at 12:01pm
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Since I work at a place where we have quite some briefings, reviews and other meetings, I sent out a meeting request to all for a meeting on the day the baby was due (6 months later) "to discuss the results of the 'little get together' of my wife and me".

posted by derekb on June 2nd 2007 at 1:55pm
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