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What to Do When You Hear "I'm Bored"?

052709boredom.jpgMy mom always used to tell me that only boring people got bored. I believed her and definitely didn't want to be boring. It seems I haven't uttered those words since childhood (or maybe I just assign a different word to the feeling), but kids inevitably will until the end of time. We're curious how you encourage your kids to cure the "I'm Bored" moments (because of course, it's not a problem for you to "fix"). With summer approaching, and more down time coming, please share with other parents/readers your no-fail tactics!

 
 

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We don't have a water table, but we do have a set of 10 plastic stacking cups, the larger of which are pretty large. If I fill a couple of those up and set my 5- and 2-year-olds up on the grass, they are happy for ages. They might pour back and forth. They might "paint" on the patio. They might pick pieces of grass and dandelions to cook "soup." I used to fill up their little pool, but in all honesty, a half gallon of water in these cups keeps them just as happy for just as long, and seems to encourage more imaginative play than the pool, so I'm saving the water.

posted by mlhtn on May 27th 2009 at 11:04am
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I learned very quickly never to tell my mother I was bored. She would tell me all the things that could be done around the house and I'd get stuck with a chore!

posted by HeatherAB on May 27th 2009 at 3:05pm
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ditto with the comment above, if I ever said "I'm bored" to my mom, her response was, "well, I'll find you something to do then!"

posted by PhoebeArt on May 28th 2009 at 9:42am
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I just posted about this on my blog - we made an "I'm Bored Box" with a ton of activities to do so I can just say - go to the box!

http://shannondowdell.blogspot.com/

posted by bugnbirdie on May 28th 2009 at 11:09am
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Ha! Ditto to the above. Whenever I would utter the words "I'm bored", they were always answered with "well I can find you something to do!" and it was never good.

I use the same technique myself. Works like a charm.

posted by brenjay on May 29th 2009 at 3:01pm
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I taught my preschoolers to say, "I need to find something to get busy with." rather than, "I'm bored."

It's a much nicer thing to hear, and sometimes they'll come up with ideas for each other. Other times they'll ask me to get out a toy that I'd put away a few weeks ago if they've been thinking about it lately (we usually have about 12 toys/activities on the shelves at once, and rotate frequently).

posted by Joyful Abode: Domesticity by Trial and Error on May 31st 2009 at 1:18pm
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